How to Give Cunnilingus
Great respect to you my good man! For embarking on this worthy search for greater methods to give your woman wild pleasure. You’ll find all you need to know right here.
If you follow the steps laid out on this page and site, you will 100% give your woman incredible orgasms. If you ignore them, then you may well give disappointing oral sex, like most men unfortunately do. I'll explain the steps in great detail, with all the theory behind it so you understand why what works when. Let's begin...
Contents1. Why You Must Master Cunnilingus
2. Sexual Surroundings
3. Reading Her Body and Communications
4. Leading Up to the Clitoris
5. Fucking Her With Your Tongue
6. Licking Her to Orgasm
Once you've studied the lessons laid out here, you’ll soon be very well rewarded for your new found skills, I have no doubt. It’s unfortunate that so few men take the time to learn how to give a woman real oral pleasure.
Perhaps it’s that women tend not to vocalize and actually say how much they crave good cunnilingus, unlike men. But the fact is that women LOVE it, even more than men do. Because they get even more pleasure from it believe it or not.
Going down on a woman, and doing it well, is a wonderful gift you can give her. It’s an act so purely for her and her alone, that she can lose herself in it. And if you are skilled, which is not that hard to become with the right education and a little practice, you will be a rare man indeed and she will get hooked on it, and on you!
In fact the well-respected sex expert Michael Webb teaches men to become so good at cunnilingus that women become literally addicted to it – check out his book Lick By Lick for a taste of those master skills. Here’s my 101 and essential starting guide to great cunnilingus;
A woman’s body is turned on by her mind. I’m sure you already know that the first stages in any powerful sexual act is to relax your woman a long time before the bed.
A great way to do this is lead into it with sensual activities – the flickering warmth of candles in the air, the scent of good cooking, mood music, roses, incense, even the warmth of hot bath water and soap on her skin.
In fact the bath tub is one of the greatest places to begin with cunnilingus, as you are cleaning her thoroughly – and she won’t be in the least bit self-conscious about her vagina when you go down on her. And you can prepare for cunnilingus in much more detail, physically and hygienically for the greatest mood and best results.
Reading Her Body and Communication
Follow the advice here on how to give her great cunnilingus, and the advice you read in Michael Webb’s more advanced guide, but always pay attention to your woman. Like most sexual acts, the only way to truly master how to give cunnilingus is with patient, careful attention to the woman you're with.
Every woman is slightly different and something which makes one woman writhe with pleasure may put another woman off. Don’t worry, there are general thing that every woman likes.
But be sensitive to her. Listen to her noises, and the way her body moves. You’ll be able to tell what she loves and what she doesn’t. And be bold enough to ask her, she will appreciate it. Either during or after. If it’s during, keep your voice low and breathy – be sexy, don’t take her out of the experience with a sudden normal, logical voice. Just ask her if she likes it like that, whatever you are doing at that moment.
Leading Up to The Clit
When you have gone through at great deal of foreplay and given her entire body a great deal of sensual attention with your hands, lips and tongue, it’s time to move to the vagina.
Now remember that the entirety of a woman’s vagina is extremely sensitive, so be conscious that even the lightest touch with your warm, wet mouth and tongue will send shivers of pleasure through her. If you are too tough or hard in your actions, she may be too sensitive for it.
Look at the diagram above, enjoy and explore every part of her vagina with your lips and tongue. Kissing and licking together has a wonderful affect. Don’t be shy to really truly explore – it’s called eating pussy for a reason. But at the start stay away from the clitoris, that is for the grand finale.
Fucking Her With Your Tongue
A wonderful experience for a woman is having you fuck her with your tongue – just lightly insert your tongue into her vagina and lick all around the entrance. It is highly sensitive. If you are dexterous enough you can even insert your tongue deep inside and feel for the G-Spot on the top wall. Although this is best stimulated with fingering in combination to cunnilingus.
Licking Her To Orgasm
Now, when she is truly turned on and moaning, it’s time for the clit. Bring the attention of your tongue and lips to her clitoris – check the diagram above for where it is. Although I’m sure you know that already!
The clitoris is protected by an also very sensitive clitoral hood, until she is very, very aroused, when it will pull back to reveal the clit. Just lick and stimulate the hood until then, don’t force the clit out, it can be too sensitive too early.
I find that licking up and down with the tip of my tongue very rapidly works wonders. If you want to keep it very simple. Start light in your touch, as light as you can. And then gradually increase in intensity and passion over time.
But the best way to drive her crazy is to vary things up. Lick side to side for a while, then vary it using Michael Webb’s ingenious ABC licking method (See Lick by Lick). Alternate to sucking the clit into your mouth, and suck and lick at the same time.
An amazing tip I learned from the renegade sex guru David Shade is to hum while you are doing this – I know it sounds strange but the vibration is simply incredible for her. Believe me she won’t know what is happening to her but she’ll thank you afterwards!
So my friend, go and please put these ideas to practice. I look forward to hearing of your success.